Relationships: God’s Way

Submission in Everyday Life

Introduction:

Last week: looked at perfect example of a servant – Jesus. We talked about practical ways being servants of God can be demonstrated by today’s Christian.  Being God’s kind of Christian/servant involves submission.  If we are truly His servant – it will be readily seen in all aspects of life.  As Jesus submitted to the Father; so should we.  Submission is nothing more than submitting to the authority or control of another.  Lk. 14:26-27; 33 - submission to the Lordship of Jesus is central to Christian living

I.  What is biblical submission?

A.     1 Cor. 11:1-3 – here is a picture.  It is a key to ______________ in relationships.

1.      Look at relationship b/t God & Jesus.  Perfect harmony. 

2.      God has ordained submission in certain relationships to prevent _________.

B.     it is not. surrender; withdrawal; apathy; ________________.

C.    Submission is mutual commitment & ___________________.

II. Biblical submission is seen in _________________.  (Eph. 5:22-23, 25)

A.     Beginning in 5:22 – Paul applies this to husband/wife relationship.  5:22-23; 25

1.      Biblical submission based on valuing one another as _________________.

B.     Phil. 2:5-10 – wasn’t Jesus equal to God?

1.      Submission between equals is by ___________ – not ____________. 

2.      It is by willingly submitting to our God-given role in marriage that we serve God!

C.    Submission rarely a problem where both partners have strong relationship w/Jesus & where each concerned for the _______________________ of the other.

III. Biblical submission is seen in the parent/child relationship.  (Eph. 6:1-4)

A.     Young people – are you living up to what God expects?

1.      You are a __________________ of the household! 

1.      Basic applications:  bad manners; back talking?

B.      Rom. 13:7 – ______________ is to be found everywhere!

C.    Honoring God’s law begins with honoring one’s ________________. Isa. 30:1, 8-9

IV. Biblical submission is seen in working with the church elders.

A.     God calls on shepherds to ______ –the church is to ____________ their leadership.

1.      Heb. 13:7; 17; 24 - God has established a rule of ________ within the church.

B.     Focus on 13:17   “Obey” from word that means to “be persuaded.” 

C.    Why submit to them?

1.      Because of their ________________________.

2.      For their __________ – 13:17b

3.      We are to _______________- their work – 1 Thess. 5:12-13

D.    Too often – scriptures like this are forgotten; grumbling sets in.

1.      Key to all of this is ____________!  1 Peter 5:1-6

2.      Selfishness DESTROYS submission & it DESTROYS harmony!

Conclusion:

A.     Biblical submission not understood by people who refuse to submit to God.  It all goes back to Eph. 5:1-2

B.     Are you fulfilling the role you are in?  Has submission become a part of your life?

C.    2 Cor. 5:14-15 – do you need to start living for Jesus?  5:17 b/c new creation? 5:21